Archive for April, 2008

Stay classy, Philadelphia

April 22, 2008

Last Saturday, Stefi and I went to Philly to hit up the big rivalry game – Mets v. Philadelphia at Citizen’s Bank Park.  The park is gorgeous.  Stef and I had standing room only “seats,” which meant we were able to score a really sweet spot standing behind home plate.  They have these bar-like ledges you can lean on, rest you food on, etc.  Totally brilliant idea.  Apparently they only sell the standing room seats for sold out games, and I would totally do it again (hint, hint, Citi Field).  Anyway lots of Mets fans were down there, including the girls of Spring Training – Zoe and Coop, and the “famous” Matt Cerrone.  It was a really great time (awesome to win on enemy turf), and for the most part, despite all the rivalry talk, the fans were cool.  But some of them were hideous.  First there was the drunk fan to our right.  He consistently tried to engage us in banter, but he wasn’t clever or funny and we had to keep brushing him off (quote of the night “Win, loose or draw, your team still sucks!” uhhhh….).  Same guy spat on a fan 10 rows in front of him – a Phillies fan!  Crazy.  Stef an I hung out at the McFadden’s in the stadium for a while after the game, then left around 8:30 to take the SEPTA back to out hotel.  At this point it was pretty dark and desolate, so we tried to catch up to a group of people we saw walking that way.  Apparently that was a mistake.  The men started harassing us and making crude remarks, and one of them slapped me on the ass.  They were with girls, who joined in on the heckling.  I never thought I’d feel unsafe somewhere just because I was wearing a Mets shirt.  Like I said, it wasn’t all the Phillies fans who behaved that way, but it was a turnoff.  Although what can you expect from a team whose mascot (WTF with the Phanatic?!) smashes a plastic Mets helmet between innings?  I know you haven’t won anything in a while, but let’s keep some good sportsmanship.  Stay classy, Philadelphia.

(Coop, Stef, Me, Zoe)

I’m still alive…

April 16, 2008

I realized today, while running and thinking about various blogs to write, that I’ve been spending a lot more time thinking about blogging than actually blogging.  In fact, I’ve been terrible about it.  I’ve barely touched my food blog, this blog has been neglected for ages, I just haven’t been compelled to sit down and do it.  Once upon a time ago, when I had a secret blog (I mean, it’s still there, but not, you know, updated…) I would write several times a week.  I do miss writing.  I should do it more.  I will do it more.  I think it will help.

I’ve been stressed lately.  What else is new, right?  I’m going through a bit of a quarterlife crisis.  My lease is up at the end of June.  My job is also up at the end of June.  There is no way I will be caught dead in a classroom next year, so I’m left in this limbo – what am I going to do come July?  I’d like to stay in NYC for the summer, perhaps sublet a place, but after that?  I feel like maybe the universe is telling me that it’s time for something new.  We’ll see.

In other news, I’ve been dating again.  Not loving it.  Have met a few cool guys.  But this last thing kinda messed me up.  I’m in the rebounding process, but not quite there yet.  Fucking men giving me trust issues….

Going to Philly this weekend to see the Phillies v. Mets on Saturday.  Instead of Passover dinner at my uncle’s.  10 miles outside Philly.  Yeah.  But I will be attending Passover brunch the next day (hooray matzo brie) and night 2 at my parents’ place in DC.  And to think, I’d planned on inviting the ex to Passover.  As my people would say, oy!

Then I’m off to San Francisco for 4 fabulous days with Melissa, one of my oldest friends in the world.  It will be lots of excellent food, drink, a day of wine tastings in Napa, and a perfect getaway from life.  Is anyone else looking to run away?